Before I happened to notice a tiny reference to a book called “The Parrot Who Owns Me” in one of those scarily on-target “sponsored links” riding the margins of my amazon.com customer page, I had never heard of Dr. Joanna Burger.
I certainly didn’t know she was one of the foremost ornithologists in the world.
Pearl and I were much more interested in the picture of the large green parrot on the cover of her book.
As the story begins (and not unlike with “Wesley the Owl,” a similar story of adoption which places a bird in difficult circumstances into the care of a knowledgeable human companion), Dr. Berger’s training in bird behavior is helping her 30-year old newly relocated parrot companion to grieve the loss of his to-that-point lifelong owner (parrots often survive elderly owners), regain his health, and integrate into a loving new family.
Similarly to Wesley as well, in time, lacking a bird companion to mate with, Tiko quite naturally selected Joanna, alternately luring her into “nests” he constructed around their house and attacking her human husband, the uber-tolerant fellow ornithologist Dr. Michael Gochfeld.
When not terrorizing Michael or waiting for Joanna to return home from her day at work, Tiko often used his innate intelligence and creativity to find companionship wherever he could.
I’m not sure who had the idea first, but clearly it is a good one!
Read “The Parrot Who Owns Me.”
p.s. Tiko is still alive and thriving today at 49 years old!
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Amazing. I read your book a long time ago. I have a rainbow lorikeet and was told by the locale vet that she was a runner who would never fly and that she would die. That was 24 years ago. She talks but sometimes makes long statements about certain situations. I feel that she is actually saying what she thinks and not repeating words. I have tried to record her. She is aware and stops talking, OMG I love my parrot. She does not copy people’s voices. She has her own voice and expresses it. Very few people have heard her but when they have they are amazed. X
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Oh how I love this – each parrot (like each person) has their own unique voice. We humans are so lucky when a parrot chooses to share their voice with us. 💕
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Thankyou so much! I’m in Australia. It’s late. My parrot is wondering what I’m up to. She is in bed. She is the love of my life! So bloody smart.
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They are SO smart! I tell my Petal bird every day she is the avian love of my life (and truly THE love of my life). 🩷
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